Wednesday, May 7

ONLINE SEMINAR - Emotional Separation from Parents

How our unmet needs in childhood turn into deficiencies and how we spend our whole life trying to fill them...

By Ineta Mas (Psychotherapy / Coaching)

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Wednesday, May 7 · 12 - 1pm GMT+1

Location

LE2 7AD

Welford Road Leicester LE2 7AD United Kingdom

Refund Policy

Refunds up to 7 days before event

About this event

The early relationship we had with our parents lays the foundation that determines how we will see ourselves and the world around us when we become adults.

Based on this relationship we create subconscious programs, beliefs about ourselves, our worth and wether this world is a safe place to live in.

When we grow up - these programs become responsible for the scenarios we keep repeating over and over again, situations we keep creating and wether we are able achieve what we desire or not.

Unfortunately, parents can't always meet all of our psychological needs and provide enough love and security.

And those unsatisfied needs become deficiencies that we spend our whole lives trying to fill.

They are responsible for how we choose to live, what kind of relationship we have with ourselves, what kind of people we attract into our lives, how we choose to earn money, and countless other things.

We try to fill those holes inside of us with other people, achievements, money.. But we simply keep repeating the same scenarios which unfortunately lead to the same outcomes. The same feelings and emotions we experienced when we were small.

This means we got stuck in childhood and we have not been able to emotionally separate from our parents.

In other words, we failed to grow up emotionally and to become mature individuals who can freely create their lives the way they want to live.

In order to fully separate ourselves from our parents and to come out of the childhood - we need to see and understand how our personality was formed in our childhood, which of our needs were not satisfied, which feelings we have suppressed deep inside of us, and only then will we have the opportunity to change our subconscious programs so that they no longer prevent us from creating the life we actually want to have.

In this course we will talk about:

How are subconscious programs formed and what determines them?

Unsatisfied psychological needs. What do they determine?

How do unsatisfied psychological needs in childhood turn into deficiencies that force us to repeat the same scenarios?

How to meet unsatisfied childhood needs now and stop living out of deficiencies?

How did my relationship with my mother shape my personality?

How did my relationship with my mother affect my choices and the life I create?

How did my relationship with my mother affect the partnerships I create?

How did my father contribute to the development of my personality?

How did the relationship with my father affect my inner strength, the belief "I can" and my courage to live?

How did the presence or absence of a father affect my choices in partners/career/earning money?

Why does the inner critic live inside of me?

Why do I not believe in myself?

What is an emotional separation from parents?

How does not being able to separate from them prevent us from living a fulfilling life?

How to completely separate from them and finally get the steering wheel of life back into our own hands?

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1h30min Video + Homework

***Once you purchuase the couse - an email will be sent with the link to the course and the password. ***

*** If you do not receive the link please email at info@inetamas.com ***

Organized by

Ineta Mas (Psychotherapy / Coaching)

I specialise in childhood experiences that most of the time determine a person's entire life.

These experiences shape how we see ourselves and the world around us.

Complicated relationship with parents, unfulfilled emotional needs, lack of love and abandonment..

From these experiences we formed deficiencies that we unconsciously try to fill, yet we keep repeating the same situations we don’t want.

So that we could once again experience the same feelings we felt in childhood.

From there comes loneliness, deep inner sadness, emptiness that we try to fill with other people - by creating the same unhealthy relationships or attracting the same kind of people that hurt us.

We try to fill it with career, money and achievements but we either can't get it or even if we succeed - we feel no satisfaction.

We still feel that something inside of us is missing.

This is because we act from trauma.

Emotional trauma is like a knot that forms at a certain moment when we experience something very painful. And since we are not able to process it - we get stuck in that moment.

This means that our choices - are the choices of our wounded childish part of ourselves. The one that felt anger, shame, guilt, and couldn’t defend itself. It is that part’s attempt to repeat childhood situations in order to "fix" them.

Only by seeing our wounds and the reasons behind our choices can we change those choices.

That is the beauty of therapy. It helps us get to know ourselves.

And once we get to know ourselves, we stop repeating the same scenarios and take our life back into our own hands.

Nothing controls us anymore... We become free to create life our own way—the way we actually want it to be.

Education:

Accredited Specialist Certification in Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy

Certification in Schema Psychotherapy

Accredited (IAOTH) Certification in Gestalt therapy

Accredited (CTAA) Certification in Life Coaching

Practitioner Certification in Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP)

Accredited Certification in Emotional Intelligence

Accredited Certification in Mindfulness